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 My Best Tip With Women:

The "Common Denominator" in All Men's "Dating Advice"...

Right out of the book, I am going to give you my most powerful tip on attracting women. You will be able to IMMEDIATELY go out and use this to get PERMANENT change in the number and quality of women you attract, as well as something that can only come from the science I developed: REPRODUCIBLE RESULTS.

Every time you use it, "it works." I want you to know I'm for real right out of the starting gate here, so let's get into it, then I want you to go try this for real in your life...

In fact, let's blow the lid off this thing, so that you will never have to buy another "dating advice" product. I'll give you Dating Science instead.

I'm all about "synthesis" - finding the common denominator in advice, information, and skills to do with human behavior. I've been around awhile, and personally know most of the experts out there in the area of men's dating and personal growth. If we were to cut to the chase, it turns out that in the world of "advice," nearly everything you could possibly read on the subject could be boiled down to one paragraph, not a whole book, and perhaps even one sentence.

Maybe even ONE WORD. That word would be "mysteriousness."

That's because if we would look to Dating Science instead of advice and opinions, we'd find:

The number one sexual attractor for women is "being mysterious."

You may have heard of such a thing from a friend, or an older brother, or as idle conversation with other men who get a lot of dates. They may have said, "Be intriguing," or "Be enigmatic."  Your friends might have said, "Be different," or "Be excellent." Your coach in sports might have said, "Be the top dog," or "The best man," or the like...

You may have heard that it's good to be funny and confident in attracting women.

That's ONLY true when done so in a mysterious way that keeps them at bay, and guessing about what you're made of.

In fact, you may even have heard advice from groups of men, such as "the men's dating community."

If so, it's likely that they told you any number of things purported to be attractive:

• Dressing outlandishly, called "peacocking"
  
• Showing how many friends you have, or other women interested in you, called "social proof"
  
• Having somewhere else to be, or important things to do, called "false time constraints"
  
• Showing off a skill or talent or trait, called "demonstrating value"
  
• Or even going so far as to offer a comment that could be interpreted as either a compliment, or a criticism, called a "neg"
  

... or any of a host of other things that don't come with any scientific explanation whatsoever, and therefore can't be counted on to give reliability, accuracy, effectiveness, or can be reproduced.

What's worst of all, they likely feel FAKE and INAUTHENTIC. It feels like putting on an act.

When any of these DO "work," it's because they offer a woman something different to be intrigued by, captured by a mysteriousness, and at street level, make you more difficult to label as a particular "type" of guy.

If you subscribe to this stuff, at least learn that such "moves" as a "neg" aren't really "negative compliments" at all. If done scientifically, they would instead be perfectly ambiguous statements - that which causes an intense curiosity about a puzzle to solve.

Many guys who learn these "techniques" end up embarassing themselves and possibly insulting women with memorized methods based in "throwaway advice" and opinion.

Which explains why they often don't "work." They are contrived, derivative, and don't come from who you really are. To real, quality women, you are then something pretty ironic - easily LABELLED as...

..."a fake."

I'd be surprised if you ever heard advice telling you to be mysterious in a way that is entirely supported by science... Yet in a way with all the accuracy, reliability, assurance, and credibility of having a veritable "insurance policy" - one that guarantees better dates with higher quality women than you have ever heard another guy having.

That's because until now the science didn't exist.

The problem with the "throwaway" advice of "gurus," your friends, your coach, your mom, or any of a host of self-styled internet "experts" is precisely that. It's advice to be "thrown" away, meant to inspire, encourage or even promise success and glory, but not detail out, in quick, simple, actionable steps what you LITERALLY do to attract women like nobody else can. Nor could they be anything else. These "tips" are based in opinion, anecdotes, or worse - recycled opinions and anecdotes cut and pasted from other places on the internet. Not real science.

I'm sure you can see one problem in "throwaway advice" telling you to be more mysterious, more enigmatic, more of an enigma, more of an "alpha male," more of a winner, or more of anything else, is that it is very likely to come off as FAKE, and inauthentic - not the real you.

And that is more than a valid concern. It's the kind of misguided advice that actually HARMS your attractiveness and effectiveness, while promising to HELP these.

That's because "throwaway advice" is "surfacy," trite, simplistic, and leaves out the science underneath - a knowledge base that you don't literally have to memorize in order to use. I've simplified it for you rather than making it "simplistic," and set it down in a way that keeps all the accuracy, reliability, and effectiveness, while making it easy to use.

To show you how far I'll go to help, I'm even going to translate this advice a level deeper for you, with the how-to moves that can put this into execution mode for you RIGHT NOW:

DO NOT BE LABELED by a woman.

That's in large part what makes you "mysterious." You can't be pinned down. Importantly, and what most others utterly miss (because they don't understand the "source code" for the thousands of techniques I will teach you), is this: it is just as diminishing of your mysteriousness (and therefore, attractiveness) to be labeled something GOOD as it is to be labeled something BAD.

So here it is:

 

• If a woman says she thinks you're a "player," joke that "the orphans" won't appreciate that much, but back it with conversation about the real volunteer work you do, and the real people you are kind and good to. Get real, using real responses that are the spontaneous words of the real you.

• If a woman says that she thinks you're "nice" or "the kind of guy I could see as a friend," say, "You don't know me very well do you?" Then wink. You might even channel Bill, from "Kill Bill," who said, "Kiddo, I'm never nice...but I'll try to be sweet..." Getting real with her, tell her (in your own way), "friends are friends, but lovers are something far more than that."

• If a woman says, "You're really smart," then say, "That would make you less intelligent, and frankly, I hope that's not true." Better yet, break out into your dance moves, and say, "Nah, dancers as good as me aren't so smart." Getting real, say, "I wouldn't want a woman who can ONLY dance well, or can ONLY have intelligent conversation, and I would hope the same is true for you about men... but thanks for the compliment. I like you too."

• If a woman says, "You're really the life of the party," then say, "Well I love people, but tell me...what's the last culturally transforming book YOU'VE read?" Using your own real way of connecting, say, "I love a woman who can balance me out and we make each other grow, you know?"

 

It doesn't matter whether the label is a positive one or a negative. Letting yourself get pidgeon-holed is unattractive.

It's far too common for men to put on false selves, trying to "game" or "impress" women, when in fact they end up doing the opposite. They turn them off or worse - manipulate them - earning all men a bad name for so doing. That's not mysterious. And neither is wearing your heart on your sleeve of course. As with most of life, doing something in the middle is what works.

The idea is to not be labeled by a woman, but at the same time enjoy being your real self. That's true mysteriousness - the science-based, prime core sexual attractor for women - and the real you all in one.

The fact of the matter is that you are ALL of these things, and in the right to not be so quickly objectified or labeled. You ARE smart, and DO love people. You ARE hard working, maybe even studious, but are ALSO imaginative, and DO love to learn new things too.

The real truth IS that you cannot be so quickly labeled.

And yet within minutes, women ARE doing this to you all the time, if you open your eyes to see it.

Don't be labeled. Be mysterious. Go use this NOW, and write me at the newsletter about what happens to your life...

You'll see for your own eyes.

 

You're for real, and so is what I have to teach you.

Begin with the Masculinity Code, now in PAPERBACK for the first time:

                            > www.doctorpaul.net/masculinity-code

 

Why So Many Men Try So Hard, Yet Come Up
Short When It Comes to Women or Work.
It Never Had to be This Way. 

It's a lonely feeling, I know.  It's the kind of question that, to even acknowledge you ask it makes you feel worse than before. So long as nobody asks "the question", you can manage to ignore it.

Still, a part of you knows there are things that hold you back, and like never before in your life, they MUST be answered.

Your livelihood, your health, your quest to be hand in hand with just the right woman - or to work toward that while having a much richer, satisfying dating life for now - utterly depend on it.

You might even be a guy who is in all actuality, successful with women and career...

...but for some reason has a hard time visualising that fact, feeling great about it, or feeling truly accomplished even when other people tell you otherwise.

Still, you DO worry, and so you keep working hard, and wonder why you're so tired at times.

I've had to ask this question many times in my life because nothing would change about it unless I did. I'm sure you'll agree that a man needs to feel like the master of his own problems, in command of his own destiny - I don't know about you, but I'd rather go it alone. I'll bet you're with me on that. In fact, sometimes even admitting to ourselves we have had a failure, a breakup, a job not working out, or some general self-doubts leaves us feeling downright ashamed.

Then what? There's nobody to turn to for the answers without feeling one-upped by that person too - even if it's a male friend, a good woman you know, or a mentor with all the good intentions in the world. You know they mean well, and you're thankful for supportive friends, but it just feels like insult added to injury to even have to ask somebody for help on getting the better life you know you're worth having.

I've been there for sure. 

 

 

What Every Man Ought To Know

(About Women, Work & Being A Real Man)

"I've discovered a man [Dr. Paul] who is one of the very smartest experts, I've ever met or even heard of, in the area of psychology and behavior..." David DeAngelo Author of Double Your Dating

What I am presenting in The Masculinity Code is based in REAL science. When you understand and begin applying this science in your life you are going to see results you have never dreamed would happen.

This is THE place to start with my material on women and dating. Get the Masculinity Code, HERE:

> www.doctorpaul/net/masculinity-code

...and you're on your way.

We'll then be ready to move on to new, higher skills, strategies, tactics and technology at dating, relationships, career and personal growth for men and only men.

 

You Were Promised Something Different

It wasn't supposed to be this way. As a man, you were expecting by now to have all that hard work pay off. It's not playing out they way "they" always said it would. You went to school and worked hard. You took some really crappy jobs starting out to "pay your dues" - and looking back on them now you can't believe you ever did. You moved on to a "real job" but in a lot of ways, it felt like the same amount of work, not a lot more pay, but at least had a more important sounding title. More "dues" were paid.

Meanwhile, you worked hard to learn about women and what they want. Maybe by then, you finally started being paid what you're worth at work - and in a few years, paid quite well - but women were still a bit of a mystery.

You worked on getting the nerve to ask out the ones you like, to make yourself more attractive to them, and got the right clothes and haircut to fit in with what other men seemed to be doing to be successful with women. Maybe you even went so far as to take a dating course or do a training on being more effective at attraction and dating It felt good for the weekend you did it, but found out in the weeks that followed - it's STILL the same you, in the SAME body, with the SAME secret concerns, worries and challenges that STILL felt embarassing to share with other men or admit to yourself. Even other men whom you know are your diehard supporters. You learned a lot, felt a sense of hope for a time, but were grabbed by a gnawing feeling that there is something deeper about you to consider than what's presented on the surface.

This bothered you, because if a real man needs to go it alone to find his own answers, but you HAVE been going it alone for a long, long time without getting all this handled, what are you supposed to do?

There certainly aren't mainstream resources out there for you to use privately either. The magazines and books and tv shows are all for women. Women only - empowered women, and disempowered women, all types of women with every conceivable problem seem to always have not just one resource - but a huge selection of resources to go to for anything and everything they could want solved.

And that is a good thing, because you would never want to see yourself someday with a weak or unhappy woman. Good for them. You support and applaud it.

 

Do You Truly Feel Respected for What You're Worth?

But what about MEN? There is nothing for men, and ONLY men. Sports news, monster truck rallies, nude magazines and swimsuit issues, wristwatch, suit, razor blade, and deodorant advertisements or TV shows about explosions, stuntmen, flatulence, and again - still more women's bodies - not only fail to give you ANY advice or instruction about your challenges in building a better life as a man, they're downright patronizing. They do not get you more ability with women or out of your day job and into your dream career - your "mission." They are just a distraction.

If you have even noticed this utter lack of information for men, you would again risk being laughed at to complain about it to anyone - even your best friends. In a rare moment of clarity in your busy life, working so hard, you might even notice that one of the greatest things lacking in your life is RESPECT for you, your work, your labor, and your genuine efforts at being the best man you could grow to be by now.

Respect.  Where's yours?

Which brings us back to square one. You were supposed to be completely successful in your career by now - a stand-out man. And that was supposed to bring wealth and security, but above all, was supposed to make you wildly attractive to women. Eventually it was supposed to hand-deliver just the right girlfriend to your door, to your bedroom, and to your life. One you would eventually call your wife - and she would respect you as you do her, support your dreams, believe in them and in you, and admire you for all that labor you've done.

This is what you were told would happen.

It didn't. It won't. And it was never going to, because no women are ever going to care as much about what it's like to be a man as you do right now. And no men, not even me, are ever going to care as much about your specific, personal dreams, ambitions to rise up more powerful and effective than you were yesterday, become more financially secure, or find the ability to be better with women than other men, than YOU do right now.

You heard me. Nobody's coming to save you, fix you, discover you, cultivate you, promote you, unburden you, amplify you, elevate you, honor you, or give you the respect you deserve for all the work you've done on your life.

Except you. You get to do it, and you CAN do it.

 

Your Real and Private Worries

This discovery was one of the most obvious and yet difficult ones I've ever had to come to terms with in my own life, and I suspect you are a lot like me.

Some of the things you may have worried about without ever telling another soul are:

• Wondering if it's "too late for me." Whether you're 27, or 57, you might still think to yourself, "I'm too old," or "locked in," or "overcommitted," or lacking in the personal resources to get what you really want in the area of women or work.
  

 

• Along those same lines, even if you're only 22, you might worry that you are somehow "behind other men," or have so much "catching up to do" on them that it makes you feel like giving up before you even look at trying. If you are over 30, it's even worse, and if over 40, you might really heavily feel this feeling.
  

 

• Feeling jealous or competitive with other men while at the same time feeling as if you just don't have the skill or determination to join the fray - to compete successfully against other men, defending yourself, and fighting for what's rightfully yours. Winning.
  

 

• Feeling afraid to approach women you like, want and desire, to settle for dating only women you can now "get," and meanwhile resenting both - because you know you have more to offer women than you have to show for it right now.
  

 

• Worrying about whether you'll "ever amount to much," and yet somehow knowing you are capable of a much bigger career - an inspiring one - one that could only be called your life's mission as opposed to a job. But not knowing quite how to even begin on that quest.
  

 

• Wondering about the company you keep, and whether you could know more important and successful people, whether they would ever let you into their "inner circle," even if you know that you have a lot to offer them. You just don't know the "secret" to having the kinds of friends, career and social connections other men who seem more successful seem to have.
  

 

• Being at a loss as to why you seem to work harder than everyone else, desire success more, and yet seem to never quite make progress toward what you really want - as if it's always "one step forward, two steps back" - and you can't stand it anymore.
  

 

• Feeling lonely, and yet the very act of expressing that, reaching out to others, getting assistance, companionship, friendship, and a sense of "belonging" to a group, circle, community, or TEAM is something that seems out of reach and embarassing to you.
  

 

• Feeling or being "mediocre," and for all the hard work, still that way - not wanting that for yourself ever again, but not sure how to stop finding yourself right back there in the middle of average, everyday, inevitable mediocrity.
  

 

• Being complacent and bored with yourself.
  

 

• Wishing for love, pursuing it, falling short, through breakup after breakup or divorce, and worrying that you might, maybe someday die alone.

 

• Watching life go by, and feeling utterly helpless to stop it, change it's course, or grow stronger, better, more successful, happy or loved.

 

• Worrying about what you are worth, both in the workplace and in dating and relationships, and butting heads with the difference between what you want to be, and what others think of you.

 

• Knowing that there's also something about how you see yourself as less valuable than others, or not worthwhile, and you worry it may be true.

 

• Being unable to find balance in all that work you do, to find self-respect and the respect of others, and not wondering as to the origin of that thought.

 

I'm a guy just like you, and like most men, I've worried about such things just as you do.

The clincher is that like the majority of guys, you likely don't fall among the worst of the worst, most challenged, unconfident, self-doubting guys, or among the most self-assured, uber-masculine guys to the point of arrogance either. Most of us fall somewhere in the middle, able to do okay with women but always wondering if we could be doing better, or making enough of a living to actually be comfortable, but not enough of a passion for our careers that we could honestly say we are doing a dream job, and are as accomplished and successful as we could be. To be capable of saying to ourselves, "Well done."

Like I was, you are somewhere in the middle, and just know there's more to you than being in the middle, average among men. 

 

What We're Going to Work On To Set Things Right For You Again

It turns out I have something to offer you that doesn't in any way leave me worse for the wear. It actually feels uplifting to me to provide it, and benefits us both for me to take the role of a teacher.

I've found a way for this to not be threatening, or a challenge, or a burden to either of us. It's that I also happen to be a psychiatrist as well as being an everyday guy just like you. The rewards of my professional training put me in a position to offer you help not as an "I'm better than you" proposition, but as a teammate to you, a student of life alongside you, and someone with nearly as many stakes in your success as there are in my own (almost as much) - because your success means that I am doing some quality work.

Several things make it more than okay to get help with your challenges in building skills as a man. One of them is the idea of being on the same team together (which we are), and another is the use of a SYSTEM of understanding yourself, women, and a life's career mission as opposed to just an ordinary job.

It's TECHNOLOGY which is the saving grace that lets us save face too. Having "technology" about the minds of women and your own mind simply amplifies your abilities without being talked down to you like you are some kind of loser. You aren't (and know it), but you also know you haven't lived up to what you feel your potential could be.

It's the SYSTEMS I have developed for you - courses that just as at a university, give you the step by step methods of moving forward in your dating and relationship skills in a way that coordinates, amplies, joins forces and empowers you without threatening anyone else's sense of their own power or accomplishment.

I'm the only psychiatrist in the world who trains men LIVE in social settings at how to be more effective with women, work, and personal growth. But I'm far more than a trainer or coach. I'm a theorist in two areas: that of "courtship processes" and of "unification theory" – bringing into practice what amounts to the first practical applications for men in the area of Evolutionary Psychology.

If you have ever had worries or concerns about some of those "secret" beliefs about yourself or the world, they stop you from being the man you were meant to be. You'll be surprised and pleased to find out that I provide the kind of step by step and course by course training that is kind of like going to a "university" on "How to Be an Effective Man."

It turns out that with the power of science, plus the experiences you get from taking what you are about to learn out into your social situations and workplace challenges, add in a burning desire to grow and improve, and a massive and rapid PERSONAL EVOLUTION results:

         

We have the courses that show you how to revolutionize your effectiveness with women, dating and relationships, of course.

But we have also found that this is not good enough for an effective, powerful life as a man. This is because of one of hundreds of new discoveries I have to share with you.

 

Yes, There Really is an Easy, Intense, Effective "School"
On "How to Be a Man":

• With the skills necessary to get not just good dates, but high quality dates leading to just the right woman for you if you so choose.

• With the competence and mastery necessary to find not just the next job but the calling of a lifetime, what I've termed, a "Mission in Your Life as a Man"

• With the style and resolve to take your raw potential at both of these core areas of masculinity, and use them as a power source to building a solid professional and social life that lasts

How exactly are you GOING to FINALLY get these pieces of your life TOGETHER?

That "School" you can attend is called www.doctorpaulondemand.com

It begins in the Equation of Masculinity:

Masculinity = Skill With Women + Progress on Your Career Mission

Part of the many things this means is that when you do better with your career, you do better with women. And when you do better with women, you do better in your career.

Think about it. You know it's true. It's always been true. We help you master both of these, and their connection. Ultimately, it's masculinity itself that is attractive to women, powers your career, and is the fuel source of your personal growth as an effective man. 

 

The Essentials Bundle

                   

The starting point for many men who begin training in this school do so at their own pace, and only in a way that works in perfect sync with their rest of their current duties and concerns.

Many begin with the simple collection of core essential ebooks called the ESSENTIALS BUNDLE:

Get it HERE: www.doctorpaul.net/essentials-bundle

 

Mature Masculine Power

Next in training it makes sense to begin with the root of your power as a man, in the training course called the Mature Masculine Power Program:

Get it HERE: www.doctorpaul.net/mature-masculine-power

 

 

 

MindOS Mastery

From there, armed to the nose with the source of attraction, passion for your work, and what amounts to a very real set of skills not unlike a superhero's utility belt, you are ready to harness all that power and put it to specific work using your CHARACTER MATURITY in the MindOS Mastery Course.

It's called MindOS because it is none other than the "operating system of the human mind."

Get it HERE: www.doctorpaul.net/mindos

 

KWML Mastery

Now we have a choice to make in your training. If you were in a university degree program, you might decide to "major" in a degree - in this case, the specialty of deeply, truly understanding women, versus working on your career mission choice more if that has needed more work.

For the latter, you would want to round out your knowledge of masculinity, character, and the idea of having a career mission with the social and professional networking technology called the  KWML Mastery Course.

Get it HERE: www.doctorpaul.net/kwml

 

Omega Male Program

For the full breadth of understanding women and dating, relationships and marriage - human courtship itself, from first meeting, to having the woman of yoru dreams for life - it's the Omega Male Program. This is also the very material you'll want to teach your own children about the opposite gender as they get to their own dating years.

Get it HERE: www.doctorpaul.net/omega-male-program

 

Doctor Paul On Demand Program and Archive

These are the courses for the most part - the fundamentals. But there is nothing like taking your home study and bringing it to class.  That's the membership program at www.doctorpaulondemand.com, where my staff and I help you through 24 hour forums, and weekly, two hour LIVE teleseminars where we can talk personally.

In fact, you get between one and three months of this follow-up program FREE, with EVERY DISC COURSE I OFFER!  That way I can actually PERSONALLY follow along in your progress using the courses, without any other expense to you!

For the man who wants to experience any and every question he could have, answered with precision science through the experiences of others, there's always the comfort of your own home and your own ipod: THE INSTANT TELESEMINARS ARCHIVE:

Get it HERE: www.doctorpaul.net/teleseminars-archive

 

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